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Today, September 10th 2012, is World Suicide Prevention Day.

Suicide is not something people find easy to discuss, this isn’t helped that by the fact that it is still considered a criminal act in many countries (but not the UK since 1961), or that many religions consider it a “sin” – all of this keeps suicide a taboo subject, one that people tend to shy away from given the chance.

But talking is what we need to do. In 2010 in the UK 5,608 people committed suicide (4,321 men & 1,377 women). A recent study by the University of Manchester showed that only 27% of people who committed suicide in the UK between 2000 and 2010 had spoken to a mental health professional. That means 73% (4093 people) didn’t feel they could seek professional assistance with how they were feeling.

There’s a tendency these days to shrug off suicide, and even term it a selfish act, and on the face of things I can see how people reach that conclusion, but you need to step into the shoes of the person in question. How bad had things got in their life that they felt that their only remaining course of action was to take their own lives? That they had no-one to talk to? No other form of resolution?

A few months ago I wrote a blog post, ‘The Night I Almost Died’, about how the selfish and callous actions of someone I had trusted left me feeling that there was no way out but to go out on a cold night and jump off a bridge. My reputation, my life, my self worth and confidence were all in tatters due to one vile and baseless rumour, something I thought I’d never live down. I probably wouldn’t be here today if it weren’t for my friend Ben, who spoke to me in the middle of the night, who calmed me down when I was shaking and in tears, or without the help of the counsellors at MyHIV.org.uk who helped me rebuild my confidence.

So today on Suicide Awareness Day take a moment to think of your friends, your colleagues, your family – is there anyone who’s feeling down? Someone who’s more anxious or withdrawn than normal? Why not give them a call, or arrange a coffee and ask how they’re doing. From personal experience I can tell you that there’s nothing more reassuring than hearing a friendly voice and seeing a familiar face when you’re at your lowest.

If you’re the one feeling low, why not take the initiative and call a friend up yourself, and if you really feel you can’t talk to your friends about what’s going on there are organisations out there that can help you. If it’s HIV related try the THT Direct helpline on 0808 802 1221, or if it’s more general the lovely people at Samaritans will always be there to listen on: 08457 90 90 90.

Make time for those around you this World Suicide Prevention Day.

 

Massive cuddles all round,

Sam
UKPositiveLad

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  1. This year we released a special collection of Manchester- made music for a charity called CALM (Campaign against living miserably) They were set up to reduce the high levels of suicide amongst young men in the UK.

    The album entitled Thirty One contains rare and exclusive tracks from artists such as Elbow, Noel Gallgaher’s High Flying Birds, I am Kloot, Mr Scruff, Everything Everything, Delhpic, The Whip and many more.

    All proceeds go to CALm with the specific aim of funding their national suicide helpline 7 nights a week instead of the current 4. It’s a fantastic collection of music (being heralded as ‘Manchester’s best ever collection’) and all proceeds go to a very worthy cause.

    BUY> PLAY> SAVE LIVES
    http://www.thirtyonesongs.com
    http://www.facebook.com/thirtyonesongs

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