{"id":447,"date":"2011-01-17T20:26:27","date_gmt":"2011-01-17T20:26:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.savinglivesuk.com\/?p=447"},"modified":"2011-01-17T20:26:27","modified_gmt":"2011-01-17T20:26:27","slug":"hello","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beyondpositive.org\/sluktest\/hello\/","title":{"rendered":"Hello!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last November I made the decision that after living with HIV for three years I was no longer happy to keep my diagnosis between myself and close family and friends. I struggled with the idea that a positive status should be kept secret, as though it was something to be ashamed of. Speaking out breaks this idea and allows me to fight against stigma proudly and openly.<\/p>\n<p>I received a great deal of support when I broke the news and began to openly discuss HIV on Twitter which caught the attention of the Saving Lives. I was asked to write <a title=\"My Story\" href=\"http:\/\/www.savinglivesuk.com\/?page_id=2164\">My Story<\/a> for the Positive People section of their website and was thrilled this week to be asked to contribute to a blog about my life with HIV, hopefully by reading more about my personal experiences I will support Saving Lives mission to encourage people to get tested and reduce prejudice towards people living with HIV.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m 27 and have been living in Manchester for six years. At the time of my diagnosis I thought I would never be able to have a fulfilling adult relationship again but just three months later I met my amazing boyfriend Richard and I couldn&#8217;t have asked to meet a better guy, he&#8217;s negative and that brings it&#8217;s challenges but more than anything we&#8217;re just an average gay couple and very happy. My diagnosis hasn&#8217;t altered my ability to work and my colleagues were all amazing when I told them I was HIV positive.<\/p>\n<p>I just wanted to introduce myself for now and I&#8217;ll be writing again very soon about my life with the virus, if you have any questions please don&#8217;t hesitate to contact me and if you&#8217;re a Twitter fan feel free to follow me <a title=\"@birdy_tweet\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/birdy_tweet\">@birdy_tweet<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for reading<\/p>\n<p>Alex xx<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last November I made the decision that after living with HIV for three years I was no longer happy to keep my diagnosis between myself and close family and friends. I struggled with the idea that a positive status should be kept secret, as though it was something to be ashamed of. 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